Will an ex parte go on my permanent record?

Will an ex parte go on my permanent record?
My girlfriend got an order of protection against me. She had a bruise and marks on her. I don’t want to see her again so I would rather not go to the hearing. Also will it make any difference if she hit me first? She is smaller than me

Justin’s Answer
You should consider hiring an attorney for the Ex Parte hearing. That she attacked you is relevant, but only in the appropriate argument. This will leave a record that can be used against you in the future.